a walk to carry
"Getting bored, thinking of life; its ways to treat me, and how
it came to everyone and how not everyone could accept it that very way
as it came. It was harsh to live it the manner imposed by others, it was
difficult all the way more.",thought the boy. He knew it was
so, and so was he concerned about her; but, what more could he do, he
himself had less idea over that. He had known one thing, that he could
do anything; now for that matter, how so ever weird it would sound so.
He could react in crazy ways, go over-smart or react over, just that he
couldn't limit himself. Maybe, his land was somewhere else that he was
seeking.
He knew one thing that was also applicable to the world, that no one liked to live in a cage. It was just difficult to survive for long. But sometimes, it was important to live in those limits set upon us by our caretakers. Call it their weakness to understand our wishes, or call it our weakness to convince them or also you may call it, compulsion on their part. It was all connected to one thing or the other. They had seen few things in their lives, experienced those themselves that they were overprotective and concerned all the way more, about our goodness. Or just simply that they aren't wanting to understand the changed environment; something or the other bites them from within. Our work is to know, what that really is; what turns things problematic for us as well as for them.
this is so because, one way or the other, we will reach them and connect the dotes of an unknown between us. it is not impossible, things can surely work out in favour of both of us. maybe, what we get to know can open our eyes with a new reflection of those facts that are alienated to us; but matter to both of us, equally! well, easily said than done, this would really be some task but it is how we accept it and work for it. to understand what it really is, there has to be patience, self-compose. it's not about being a saint to be able to say these previous sentences; but somewhere within all of us, there has to be an equilibrium, just with the way we live and lead our lives. that equilibrium or general satisfaction level that makes us who we are. if we lose that ability to contemplate things around us, that affect us; then we really need a reality check into our lives.
many a times in our lives, we don't really look at what we need but what we want all the way more. wants as felt are never over, but ever increasing. also, when we look at others, who are having a life of great luxury or glitter, we fancy their style and feel bad on seeing that they are travelling places, trying all sports, doing this and that; whatever we don't do, or simply can't do because we are bound in a way or two. does this have to mean we can't be happier? that we choose to cry over little facts that life doesn't treat us well! well, do you really treat your life well that it would treat you so. not all had the best cars or bikes to drive, still they walked the long roads. to them happiness may not have been to enjoy the drive, but surely their happiness would have been through the celebration of the night sky under the stars and in the day, the shade under the tree. it's how one looked at life, that life rewarded us. just to pause and look at how much room for happiness was there, only if we passed a stare at the world around us. for what all we have, look at the person who doesn't even have that; still that person has every right to dream. look at that person, who gets all the things that you don't get; then why can't you be happy? why do you have to be sad, is it required so? no, it isn't required.
why to pinch over what your friend gets, and you don't get. even the basic things of life, we don't have at times, but we do survive through those times. and why always strive to be the best, and not be who you are? isn't being best defined with having a peace of mind? there have been great visionaries who have seen life beforehand. so, it doesn't have to say or mean that they were astrologers who could read the tomorrow; it was that they could read themselves and create a space for themselves, which no one could break or take away from them. with their self compose, they could influence other beings as well, this was the special thing about them. behind every dream that has taken form, to define itself to the world; there must have been those compulsions with that very person, the so called experiences of life that revelled with the person. it was not about falling apart and breaking into tatters, when things were imposed on us for the time being and we knew it was for others happiness as much as those were for ours, as they thought. because, not always can we think of us, about us. but, of those people too, who matter to us.
yes, never compromise on your dream, because no one has right to decide your future, but if there are compulsions from the side of our guardians and we are made to move with them, then how so ever difficult be it to adjust, you should just do so. the real stars that shine are in their smiles, for those who do so much for us. they can be wrong with their decisions, but why fear from experiencing that fall in life; if it was all they wanted you to experience. obviously, to not see you fall; but if they had thought something for you, it was for your own good than theirs. maybe if you could experience their road, when you may for a time being, follow your road not that well because of them. but, one thing is sure; that even with their not allowing you to lead life the way you desire, if you follow their ways and fall eventually. then, even that failure in the other field would surely be a step towards your own dream.
don't worry if you are made to compromise, for you never know that to you life's best experiences may come out of that compromise. few reasons would be eventually defined, values of life could propagate in us with a polished embellish. just remember this, that at the end of it you have to be happy; either of your tryst to walk the path what others show you for awhile, or your own way to lead life. at last, it's a part of your journey towards the calling of your life. whatever be your dream, how different path you go; one day eventually, you will reach the right door. be positive and keep moving!
Gagandeep Singh Vaid
He knew one thing that was also applicable to the world, that no one liked to live in a cage. It was just difficult to survive for long. But sometimes, it was important to live in those limits set upon us by our caretakers. Call it their weakness to understand our wishes, or call it our weakness to convince them or also you may call it, compulsion on their part. It was all connected to one thing or the other. They had seen few things in their lives, experienced those themselves that they were overprotective and concerned all the way more, about our goodness. Or just simply that they aren't wanting to understand the changed environment; something or the other bites them from within. Our work is to know, what that really is; what turns things problematic for us as well as for them.
this is so because, one way or the other, we will reach them and connect the dotes of an unknown between us. it is not impossible, things can surely work out in favour of both of us. maybe, what we get to know can open our eyes with a new reflection of those facts that are alienated to us; but matter to both of us, equally! well, easily said than done, this would really be some task but it is how we accept it and work for it. to understand what it really is, there has to be patience, self-compose. it's not about being a saint to be able to say these previous sentences; but somewhere within all of us, there has to be an equilibrium, just with the way we live and lead our lives. that equilibrium or general satisfaction level that makes us who we are. if we lose that ability to contemplate things around us, that affect us; then we really need a reality check into our lives.
many a times in our lives, we don't really look at what we need but what we want all the way more. wants as felt are never over, but ever increasing. also, when we look at others, who are having a life of great luxury or glitter, we fancy their style and feel bad on seeing that they are travelling places, trying all sports, doing this and that; whatever we don't do, or simply can't do because we are bound in a way or two. does this have to mean we can't be happier? that we choose to cry over little facts that life doesn't treat us well! well, do you really treat your life well that it would treat you so. not all had the best cars or bikes to drive, still they walked the long roads. to them happiness may not have been to enjoy the drive, but surely their happiness would have been through the celebration of the night sky under the stars and in the day, the shade under the tree. it's how one looked at life, that life rewarded us. just to pause and look at how much room for happiness was there, only if we passed a stare at the world around us. for what all we have, look at the person who doesn't even have that; still that person has every right to dream. look at that person, who gets all the things that you don't get; then why can't you be happy? why do you have to be sad, is it required so? no, it isn't required.
why to pinch over what your friend gets, and you don't get. even the basic things of life, we don't have at times, but we do survive through those times. and why always strive to be the best, and not be who you are? isn't being best defined with having a peace of mind? there have been great visionaries who have seen life beforehand. so, it doesn't have to say or mean that they were astrologers who could read the tomorrow; it was that they could read themselves and create a space for themselves, which no one could break or take away from them. with their self compose, they could influence other beings as well, this was the special thing about them. behind every dream that has taken form, to define itself to the world; there must have been those compulsions with that very person, the so called experiences of life that revelled with the person. it was not about falling apart and breaking into tatters, when things were imposed on us for the time being and we knew it was for others happiness as much as those were for ours, as they thought. because, not always can we think of us, about us. but, of those people too, who matter to us.
yes, never compromise on your dream, because no one has right to decide your future, but if there are compulsions from the side of our guardians and we are made to move with them, then how so ever difficult be it to adjust, you should just do so. the real stars that shine are in their smiles, for those who do so much for us. they can be wrong with their decisions, but why fear from experiencing that fall in life; if it was all they wanted you to experience. obviously, to not see you fall; but if they had thought something for you, it was for your own good than theirs. maybe if you could experience their road, when you may for a time being, follow your road not that well because of them. but, one thing is sure; that even with their not allowing you to lead life the way you desire, if you follow their ways and fall eventually. then, even that failure in the other field would surely be a step towards your own dream.
don't worry if you are made to compromise, for you never know that to you life's best experiences may come out of that compromise. few reasons would be eventually defined, values of life could propagate in us with a polished embellish. just remember this, that at the end of it you have to be happy; either of your tryst to walk the path what others show you for awhile, or your own way to lead life. at last, it's a part of your journey towards the calling of your life. whatever be your dream, how different path you go; one day eventually, you will reach the right door. be positive and keep moving!
Gagandeep Singh Vaid
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